How to live the happiest woman/man of all

 

Happiness is what most people seek to accomplish. But most do not achieve that. Happiness is many things but I will only talk about the most important.

Everyone sees things through a filter. For example, there is a girl name Mary and another girl name Felisha. 

Mary thinks everyone is pretty friendly and they will most likely not trick her or anything. She can't even think someone would talk about her behind her back.

So Mary is nice to everyone and everyone is nice to her. And of course, she will be gullible and be tricked. But it is worth the happiness.

On the other hand, Felisha thinks everyone is her enemy. When someone looks at her she will think that they are laughing at her in their brains so she does it to them. 

She will spend too much time figuring out whether someone is telling the truth or not. And she will think everyone is mean to her but it is only her imagination. But when she thinks her imaginations are true she is going to be mean to others. Then others will be mean to her.

But most people are not like a thing like Mary or Felisha but something in the middle you don't have to be white or black be gray !!! There is a lot humans don't know. That is why we have imagination but be careful what you think because that is what you will live in more or less.